I hope Millie is with you now. Everyone always says that all dogs go to heaven, but no one ever discusses cats. Not many people like them, you know, so I think that's why folks would rather not discuss their eternal life in heaven. How could you ponder heaven if you couldn't stand cats and would be stuck there for infinity with them?
Anyway... Millie is gone, and she is wherever cats go after they leave the earth. And I hope she's with her Gammie. She always loved you. Remember how if you came to my house, no matter where she was, if she heard your voice, she came running and talking and rubbing her little self against your legs. Sweet Mill-Mill.
For so many years now, I've been dreaming about the day there would be no more cat hair, litter, puke in various dried-up states all over my house, and no more loud deaf kitty cat meowing at all hours of the night and day. But, I tell you, the past two weeks have been tough when faced with the decision to really end it all. It's hard to look at an animal and say to them, "It's time for you to go." My emotions were so torn about the whole thing. But I knew that she was failing terribly, and, honestly, I couldn't handle finding her dead. I had reached the point that I was checking on her all day long, putting my hand on her belly or squatting down to see if her chest was moving. I was so afraid of when it would happen, what it would be like. It wasn't like she had any quality of life at all in the past few weeks. She had stopped coming and sitting with me when I drank my coffee in the morning. Even her meow sounded different. She was isolating herself in my closet a lot, and I knew all these things were signs. All of that combined with some other things going on just let me know it was time.
The kids have taken it well. Madalyn rode with me to the vet. She held Millie in the car for me, and she didn't even cry. She is so much like you, and I guess like me, too. She held it all together for me because she knew her Mama was emotional. I told her she was so brave and that I was proud of her. If she hadn't been with me, I would gone back with Millie for the process, but Madalyn didn't seem like she wanted to see it. I just felt kinda bad letting a stranger take her off like that. That was the hardest part; I do wish I had done that for her, but I know that she's okay.
So the house was quiet this morning. And I still think I can hear her little claws clicking across the kitchen floor the way they did. I do miss her, but we won't be getting another cat. I can't say I will ever have one in my house again. David is allergic, after all. And now we know we will have to get another dog before Buddy gets too old. We will all need therapy and medication when he leaves this world. I can't even let my mind go there.
I miss you, Mama. Decisions take more of a toll on me than they did when you were alive. I miss talking things over with you. I miss your reassurance. I miss nearly everything about my Mama.
Give Millie a big hug for all of us.